"Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success." (Dale Carnegie)
I love this quote. I agree 100% with Mr. Carnegie on this philosophy. Dale Carnegie is one of the authors I most respect. His book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” has guided me through my development as a professional in the corporate world and as a budding teacher in the world of education. In fact, this very book is still used by many companies to mold their leadership and management teams even though it was written in the 1930s. I have been through many of these classes and can attest to their immense worth.
The quote above is a restatement of the human fight or flight philosophy. What Mr. Carnegie is attempting to cast light upon is that people can improve themselves if they learn from their disappointments and allow them to motivate them forward to success. Some people will embrace the challenge of failure and use it to motivate them into becoming better at whatever they failed at. At the same time, some people will quit or give up when failure occurs. If you don’t quit after a disappointment, learn from it, then you should eventually be successful.
Everyone experiences disappointment throughout their lives. How you handle each situation helps shape you into the person you are. Are you going to let letdown change your direction (flight) or will you get up and try again with more experience under your belt (fight)? Dale Carnegie wanted people to be the latter of those two. In this philosophy, you become a more successful and influential person with each step forward after disappointment, especially if you learn from it.
1 comment:
Terry,
This was a good post and I agree with your words totally. In the last paragraph you mention that everyone experiences failure in their life, it’s what they choose to do in the face of that failure that defines them. In my original post I mentioned this same thought process. Acceptance of failure is the first step. Then you must decide “fight or flight.”
I am actually going to get a copy of this book you mentioned and read it over the summer. I am constantly trying to better myself not only as a teacher, but a person as well, and I feel this book will help. Thanks for the information Terry!
Mr. H
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