We had a modified gallery tour and the students were responsible for judging 10 displays The student told me that she was not going to be able to complete 10 because she only had 5 that day. I stated that she could finish the next day, but she proceeded to let me know that she was going to be absent the next day. I stated to her that the assignment was for her to complete 10. She had a couple of choices...she work hard to complete an additional 5 on that particular day or she could finish the additional 5 displays on the day she returned to school. However, in order for her to receive full credit, she needed to figure out how she was going to complete her 10.
This told her that the assignment didn't revolve around her and that it didn't change because she demanded an exception. It really felt good not to stress over the student's dilemma and obvious attempt to make me change the rules for her benefit.
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Good for you, Georgette! I, too, catch myself at times taking students comments somewhat personal when they choose to be disrespectful or just plain rude. I try and remind myself about the mentality of a high school aged student. Their main concern is not a teachers feelings and if a teacher allows students to see that he/she is bothered by their behavior in a personal way, they will attempt to take advantage of that teacher and situation every chance they can. So, I am glad that you remained calm and gave your student a choice which placed the outcome on her. I smiled when I read your blog and wanted to give you a pat on the back! Good job!
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