Friday, January 31, 2014

Rewards and Challenges

If I were to put on the shoes of a guidance counselor and walk a mile in them I would most likely feel the most rewarded by seeing a student make their graduation walk. Knowing I had a hand in the development and direction of this young adult at a level not many others did would be extremely gratifying. If the student overcame extra challenges then the enjoyment would likely be multiplied. As for the challenges I would see with those same “guidance counselor” shoes on I feel pretty strongly that containing my emotions would be my greatest struggle. I know kids today encounter many trials and tests as they navigate their high school years. I experienced many of those myself. However, there are also many challenges existing for students today that I never had to deal with and can’t really imagine trying to. Bearing witness to all of these challenges in a student’s life and keeping my emotions contained would be very trying. I would imagine many counselors feel similarly.

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  1. Terry.
    I agree. Seeing the students take that much anticipated walk across the stage would be most pleasing. As a teacher, I understand the pains we take with students trying to get them to excel in our class (for some students it is a challenge just to get them interested enough to pass!) I can't imagine being the school counselor who is faced with the challenge of getting 400-600 students to have the ability to walk across that stage and into a new phase of their life. I also agree with your greatest challenge. I am a very strong minded individual with a value system that most students have not had the home life that supports my values. Keeping my emotions and opinions in tact when dealing with such students would be a huge feat. I have to bear in mind that today's students live in an entirely different value system than the one I grew up in. If, as a counselor, I could instill hard work and reaping what you sow in addition to their high school education, I would say that equates GREAT success.

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  2. Terry,
    I definitely agree with you about the graduation walk. in my three years of teaching, last years graduation was the most fulfilling because I felt like I had the most impact of that group of students. Although I didn't have the title of a counselor, I helped students along the way in terms of trying to get their lives together to prepare themselves for graduation and college. I know that counselors deal with more of the nuts and bolts of a student's direction to achieve walking across the stage to get their diploma, I know that they feel a scene of validation as well as fulfillment. In addition to teachers, I know that counselors have that feeling of accomplishment and joy just as much as teachers do when they see their hard work pay off.

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