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Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Parents
The most important thing that I have learned about the parents of my students is that to my surprise, they don't take sides with their child. I have had many instances where I have had to call parents to be the bearer of bad news regarding their child and their behavior or bad grades. After I introduce myself and explain the nature of my call, to my surprise they listen patiently and they let me know that they will deal with their child. I have seen instances where parents were very beligerent with other teachers and administrators. Because of the area of the county where I teach, I did expect to have problems with and from parents, espcecially since the students many times emulate their parents. I am however glad that I can and have an open relationship with the parents. When I am speaking with the parents, I communicate and emphasize how much I care for their children. When they see this rather than negative a attitude or vibes, I think that this helps them to see my heart. I also share with them my goals for thier child and the program. I appreciate being able to have the parental support that I did not expect.
Penelope,
ReplyDeleteThat is great to hear you have such support from the parents. I understand the worry of making those phone calls. I have one that I have put off because I am dreading how his mom is going to react. If children emulate their parents then his mom will be a difficult parent to talk to.
It is in the child's best interest when parents are supportive rather than difficult but I can also understand how easy it would be to become defensive when someone is upset with your child. I think you are right when you said that they are more receptive because they can tell that you care. We have only the student's best interest at heart.
That is great to hear. I said in my post that I haven't had a bad run in with a parent yet. So I am almost in the same boat. The parents I have had contact with are much like you describe. The want to know the scoop on what is happening with their child. Are they paying attention? Do they act up in class? "Just let me know and I'll straighten it out." As far as parents go, so far I could not be more pleased.
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